30 Things I've Learned in 30 years January 9, 1988- January 9, 2017 1) Remember why you fell in love. It started with just the 2 of you. 2) When things are bad, look for the good. 3) Require a parenting (v.) partner. They need both of you. You need each other. 4) Tell him you love him every time you say goodbye. 5) Make his oatmeal even if you’re running late. Not too many raisins. 6) When you’re lost, find a compass. Ask for directions. 7) The grass isn’t greener.